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HAWMC Day 18: Ladies Poop Too.

I'm stepping away from the prompts today to share this video with you all. It was posted on Jezebel yesterday afternoon. I was not particularly amused. Here it is:

**Warning: it does contain language that's a little more coarse than what I normally use on this blog. So... probably NSFW. Just a heads up.**





Yep. That just happened. Now, I understand that this young man is joking. I get it. He thinks he's being hilarious. But... the truth is that this is pretty insulting. Both as a woman and as a person with Crohn's.

Seriously? Are we that uncomfortable with lady defecation that you have to set standards for how they (we) should act before, during and afterwards? Ridiculous.

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